Intimacy Questions – The Way To Ask

If you have intimacy questions on your mind – your about to discover how and why its absolutely crucial you get in control of exactly how you ask those questions – to get the results you need.

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You may already be aware of having conversations in your head – but have you noticed the questions and the intimacy question in particular that you ask yourself?

Since your mind is programmed to automatically give you an answer to every question you ask – you’ll soon realize now how important it is to take control of the questions you?re asking yourself – to make sure you get the most supportive answers and the best possible outcomes.

Taking control and deliberately asking yourself specific supportive questions is one of the simplest, yet most effective ways to make profound changes not only in your experience of sex and intimacy, but in every aspect of your life.

As soon as you start using this technique you’ll notice your whole focus changes and as a result your mood, your energy and your outcomes will automatically improve.

As you start to take control there are a couple of important things to remember about what happens when you ask yourself questions:

You will always get an answer – though it may not come immediately.  In fact it’s more likely to come later when you’re doing or thinking about something else – when your mind is free of the question and so has space and time to find the answer.

The answer you get is unlikely to be the truth but rather the nearest match to the question you mind has found – by going through all your past experiences, beliefs and expectations.

So imagine the sort of answers you’d get – if you asked yourself unsupportive questions in an unsupportive tone – such as:

• Why does everything always go wrong for me me?

• Why can I never attract / keep love into my life?

• Why can’t I get over my problems?

• Why am I so unattractive?

• Why can’t I be slim and beautiful?

• Why can’t sex be more fun / more comfortable / more frequent?

• Why can’t I make my partner want me more?

If you ask unsupportive questions like these – your unconscious mind will find you unsupportive answers to match – because it’s programmed that way.

It will search your memories, your beliefs, your past experiences your expectations and come up with answers that seems to fit.

So you might get answers such as:

• Because you’re stupid – or ugly – or lazy – or poor – or a failure

• Because you don’t deserve to have love – or fun – or happiness.

• Because you’re not good enough – or you don’t try hard enough.

• Because you expect too much.

• Getting any of these answers would of course make you feel even worse – and set you on a downward spiral into feeling more and more unhappy and so result in even worse results than before.

I hope you’re now beginning to understand – if you didn’t already – how the questions you ask yourself have a huge influence on how you feel, what you notice, what you do and how you experience life.   And that’s why it’s so crucial you start right now to take control of those questions!

So here’s what you can do.

Make sure you give yourself the greatest advantage possible by always asking yourself the most supportive questions you can – questions that can only give you supportive answers and results.

Here are a few examples:

• I wonder how I can find myself automatically enjoying every moment of the day today?

• I wonder how I can automatically notice all the great things about my partner from now on?

• I wonder how I can easily and automatically attract my ideal partner into my life now?

• I wonder how I can notice getting into bed with my partner tonight full of anticipation, excitement and confidence – feeling great – knowing that we can both enjoy making love more than ever before now?

• I wonder how I can automatically find I love myself and my body totally now and that I respect myself completely.

• I wonder how I can notice I automatically feel more and more confident / happy/ content / excited / secure/ successful /sexy today and every day from now on?

• I wonder how I can find it easy to automatically ask myself only truly supportive questions at all times from this moment on?

• I wonder how I can notice feeling really great every time I make love now and from now on and continue feeling really great afterwards. 

• I wonder how I can find it really easy to let go of anger, blame, jealousy and fear from now on?’

• I wonder how I?m going to notice myself laughing at least three times today?

• I wonder how I can automatically notice feeling totally physically comfortable this morning?

• I wonder how and when I’m going to notice feeling excited today?

• I wonder how I’m going to notice at least three great things about myself / everyone I meet or have contact with today?

• I wonder how I can notice automatically giving myself praise and encouragement today and feeling even better as a result?

• I wonder how I can enjoy contributing to other people’s lives today or how I can help someone else to feel really special?

• I wonder how and when I’m going to notice experiencing real love in many unexpected ways today?

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