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Tool 4 – Visualizing & Vision Boards – Continued

 

 

How To Use A Manifesting List

 

Many people use manifesting lists of one sort or another to help attract into their lives the people and the things they imagine will make them most happy.

 

I’ve tried almost every form of list described and found the most effective method for visualizing and ‘manifesting’ is as follows:

 

Take out your Manifesting Note Book.

 

Label the book – My Manifesting Book.

 

Make sure you have things around you that encourage you to feel good – happy pictures for example – and soft cushions or other objects that feel good to touch.

 

If particular music or particular sounds give you happy, positive feelings find some way to listen to that music or those sounds comfortably in your writing spot.

 

Before you go to bed, make sure your writing spot is prepared and set your books and pen or pencil you enjoy writing with ready at the spot.

 

As soon as get up and have used the bathroom, get yourself settled in your writing spot.

 

Open your Manifesting Book and start to write.

 

Write a list of everything you’d like, or you’d like to be different, in your life right now, in every little detail – make sure to write as if you have all these things already.

 

Here are some examples of what you might write on your list:

I am totally happy

I enjoy my life to the full

I enjoy an abundance of energy

I enjoy an abundance of love in my life

 

I enjoy great health

 

I enjoy financial abundance always now

I enjoy a happy loving relationship with my partner

We love each other more and more each day

Our relationship gets better and better every day

I have the correct partner for me

I am only allowed to have the correct partner for me


I am only allowed to make the correct decisions

I am only allowed to say the correct things to every one I communicate with

I am only allowed to do the correct things in all situations

We support each other in all the best possible ways

I respect my partner

I enjoy relaxing

I find plenty of time for relaxation and meditation

I find it easy to get up in the morning

I find it easy to follow all the steps and use all the tools in the program

I get great results by using the clearing tools regularly

I enjoy fun and laughter every day

I am a great lover

I enjoy my relationship

I love myself completely

I have the best possible partner for me

I experience love easily now

My relationship is great fun now

 

I enjoy making love

 

Making love gets better and better all the time

I know for certain everything is going just the way it should

I find something positive in everything that happens

I make the most of every moment of my life

I have the correct body size and shape for me

I easily notice all my emotions

I easily let go of all past programming

I allow myself to enjoy love easily now

I allow myself to enjoy happiness easily now

I allow life to be easy

 

Beware:

 

  • Remember – you cannot manifest for other people – that’s their business – so if you notice you’ve written things you want someone else in particular to do or be or have happen for them – cross those things off your list.

 

It’s ok to write – my partner brings me presents every day – as long as you’re open to the possibility of having a new partner who will do this rather than expecting your current partner to change!

 

  • If you notice you’ve written things you don’t want rather than what you do want – turn those things around.


 

So – if you’ve written my partner doesn’t stay out drinking with his friends for hours, or my wife doesn’t nag me – make sure to write what you want instead of that situation. 

 

For example – my partner spends every evening at home having fun with me or – my wife is such fun to be with and always has kind words for me.

 

  • Most of us find it easier to say what we want than what we don’t want initially – it’s what we hear most people telling us all day every day.

 

 

And it’s a great idea to write down all the things you don’t want on a separate list you can then throw away – as soon as you’ve put the opposites down on your manifesting list!

 

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The Power Clearing Tools

 

Tool 4 – Visualizing & Vision Boards

 


I told you earlier that I used some of these powerful tools and found myself happily married (coming from no relationship at all) in just 7 weeks. 

Well this is the tool I used to do just that. 

 

However – because I discovered some flaws in the basic process I used to do that – what you’re about to learn is the updated version – which is just as powerful – in fact probably more powerful – but has all the risk removed!

 

Visualization

 

Visualization has been scientifically proved time and time again to be one of the most effective powers of your mind for making changes and attracting the things you desire into your life.

 

You already know that the particular energy vibrations of your thoughts and feelings are what you attract situations, people and things into your life – so that the more high energy loving, happy, grateful and joyful thoughts and feelings you experience – the more positive things you attract into your life.

 

So now you’re going to discover how to best use visualization to attract the love and happiness and the sort of relationship you most desire.

 

Some people have a belief that they ‘can’t visualize’. 

If you have that belief – ask yourself:

‘Can I be absolutely certain I can’t visualize?’

And then – think about your bedroom, think about how many pillows you have on your bed and the colour of your bed covers, what you have up at the windows and whether or not you have pictures or mirrors on the walls. 

 

How many cupboards or dressers do you have in your bedroom and what do you have on the floor?

 

Or simply remember what did you have for breakfast this morning?

Or where were you when you got dressed?

 

To answer any of those questions you have to be able to visualize even if you’re not aware yet of seeing actual pictures.

 

So if you were able to answer any of the question – now you know you can visualize even if you thought you couldn’t.

 

Visualizing just means imagining – and it doesn’t matter how you imagine – some people see pictures when they’re imagining and some people don’t.

 

Some people imagine more vividly when they hear particular music that reminds them of times when they felt most happy for example. 

 

Or you may be someone who imagines more easily when you smell or touch things that remind you of good times or of things you’d like to experience.

 

The main aim of visualizing is to imagine yourself in the situation you’d most like to be in, feeling the great feelings you’ll feel when you’re there and hearing whatever you’ll hear as if you’re already there now.

Vision boards

 

Vision boards can be a great help with stimulating your imagination and your feelings – along with sounds and music and objects that also remind you of the great feelings you want to feel more of.

 

Vision boards can be anything from a simple scrap book – in which you stick pictures that represent the things you’re attracting and that help you feel those wonderful feelings when you just look at them or hear yourself describing them – to a computer generated slide show – with your words or sounds superimposed.

 

You can buy computer programs to make vision boards, but I’ve found the easiest way is to use FREE programs such as Photo Story 3 on a PC or iPhoto on the Mac – along with audacity if you want to record and edit a sound track of your own.

In the Vista operating system you also have an option to place your own photos down the side of the desktop to remind you of love and happiness and any other great feelings you want to attract more of.

 

How To Use A Manifesting List To Attract & Keep Love & Happiness

 

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The Power Clearing Tools

 

Tool 3 – Ho’Oponopono

 

 


Ho’Oponopono is probably the easiest to learn and to use, which is why I’ve suggested learning and practicing it first, but all the tools become easier to use in any situation when you’ve had some practice.

 

But – before you learn exactly how to use this tool I have to warn you that – as with many of these tools – you probably won’t believe it will do anything until you use it for yourself.

When I first heard about it I was extremely sceptical and if it hadn’t been for the fact that it was highly recommended to me by Dr Joe Vitale, whose opinion I’ve come to value greatly I probably wouldn’t even have bothered to give it a go.   But I’m so glad I did, because I’ve been able to experience absolutely astounding results – and it’s so easy to use.

Recently a friend was having relationship problems and asked me for help.  She was using other clearing tools I’d taught her – including tapping – but she was still stuck and feeling miserable.

 


I told her about this powerful tool.  She admitted she was very reluctant to use it to begin with, telling herself it couldn’t possibly help (remember to ask yourself always – ‘do I know for sure that’s true?’). 

I finally persuaded her to give it a go and she was amazed to discover she felt better and clearer in no time at all!
So even though you probably won’t believe it will do anything at all until you experience the results for yourself, I urge you to give this tool a chance – however simple it might seem. 

 

And remember – no one will know you’re using it – so you have nothing to lose – unless you don’t use it at all!!!

 

Ho’oponopono originates in Hawaii and was regularly used there by families and individuals to clear problems and achieve peace and success.

 

In his wonderful program The Missing Secret – Dr Joe Vitale explains how he came to learn about this amazingly powerful clearing method from Dr. Ihaleakalá Hew Len.

 

Joe had heard about the phenomenal results Dr. Ihaleakalá Hew Len had been getting with inmates in the hospital for the criminally insane in Hawaii and went to meet Dr. Ihaleakalá Hew Len to find out how he was doing it.   

 

To cut a long story short – you can hear the complete story and much more information in The Missing Secret – it turned out Dr Hew Len was getting these results by using the very simple Ho’oponopono clearing technique.

 

This technique is based on the understanding that you are already a whole and perfect being – a part of the eternal loving energy or God if you prefer – but that your human thoughts and beliefs persuade you otherwise – just as we discuss in all the other clearing methods.

 

 

With this tool – the clearing is also brought about by noticing when you feel uncomfortable or blocked.   When you do you simply repeat 4 phrases in your head.

 

The principle behind the method is that you’re repeating these phrases to the inner you – the whole you – the you without the imperfections you’re currently projecting on yourself to make yourself feel bad about something or someone.

 

It’s important to remember you’re not talking to anyone but to your inner self (or to the God who you’re a part of if you prefer).

 

One of the reasons my friend resisted using this tool at first was because I didn’t explain this principle well enough and she imagined she was talking to the person upsetting her – rather than to her inner self.

So what are these 4 powerful clearing phrases?

They’re very simple: 

 

Please forgive me

 

I love you

 

Thank you

 

I’m sorry

 

You can say the phrases in any order you choose at any time – just keep saying them as often as possible – especially when you’re aware of uncomfortable or unsupportive thoughts or feelings.  

 

I find the order comes to me naturally and changes for depending on the situation and how I’m feeling.

This is a great tool at any time and I’ve found its particularly useful if you’re feeling stressed or unhappy, but you don’t have the time or the energy to think anything through.

 

It’s also great to use as a regular meditation throughout the day – clearing all the time rather than allowing your mind to be filled with negative thoughts or questions!

 

In addition you can use it while you’re using any of the other clearing methods to allow them to work even more easily and smoothly.
Get ready for some amazing results!

Have fun and enjoy this new tool to the full.

 

 


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Tool 2 – Focus Questions – Continued


 

 

To Attract Love, Happiness & Sexual Ecstasy

 

 

First think about what you’d like to experience or feel.

(NOTE: not how you’d like someone else to change).

 

And when you’d like to feel that feel or have that experience. 

Remember – if you don’t state when you’d like to have your answers – your unconscious mind might give you the results you want – but in 10 or 20 years time!


So here are some examples of what you might choose to experience:

 

  • I’d like to feel happy by the end of today.

 

  • I’d like to feel secure always now.

 

  • I’d like to have fun today.

 

  • I’d like to enjoy my relationship from now on.

 

  • I’d like to find it easy to use each of the tools in this program as I come to use them.

 

  • I’d like to mend my relationship and enjoy love and happiness 30 days from now or even less.

 

  • I’d like to easily find time to follow this program and do the daily practices every day from today.

 

  • I’d like to feel good / confident / happy / loving / special when I’m around my partner by the end of this week.

 

Now write out the questions you’re going to ask yourself – to get these results.

 

  • Start each question with ‘I wonder how I can notice’. 

 

  • Also add in ‘easily’ as often as possible – since most of us have a tendency to make life unnecessarily hard or complicated!

 

  • And now add in each of the things on the list you made previously.

 

For example: 

 

  • ‘I wonder how I can easily notice I feel happy by the end of today.’

 

  • ‘I wonder how I can easily notice I feel secure always now.’

 

  • ‘I wonder how I can easily notice I’m having fun today.’

 

  • ‘I wonder how I can easily notice in what ways I’m enjoying my relationship now.’

 

  • ‘I wonder how I can notice I find it easy to use each of the tools in this program as I come to use them.’

 

  • ‘I wonder how I can easily notice I’ve mended my relationship and I’m enjoying love and happiness in 30 days from now or even less.’

 

  • ‘I wonder how I can notice I can easily find time to follow the program and do the daily practices every day from today.’

 

  • ‘I wonder how I can notice I how easy it is to feel good / confident / happy / loving / special when I’m around my partner by the end of this week’.

 

  • ‘I wonder how I can notice how easy it is to love myself more and more every day now.’

 

  • ‘I wonder how in the next 90 days or less I can easily uncover and clear all the blocks that have stopped me enjoying true love, happiness and sexual pleasure until now.’

 

  • ‘I wonder how I can find it easy to notice and follow my inner loving guidance from this moment on.’

 

At the end of your list add – THIS OR SOMETHING EVEN BETTER!

 

This is a useful addition because there may be better alternatives you haven’t even consciously become aware of or considered yet (for example a better relationship or way of relating) – so this allows you to be open to all the best possibilities.

 

Keep your list in a note book you can have with you – so you can:

 

  • Read a few questions for inspiration any time you need to.

 

  • Add more questions to the list when you think of other feelings or things you might want.

 

  • Keep note of all the great results you get.

 

Now put your questions away and read on – or better still take a walk or do something different altogether – before you come back and read then next part of the program.

 

When you focus on doing something else you allow your unconscious mind – your true self – and the universal energy – to find the answers you asked for – or something even better.

 

Now if at any time in your day you find yourself feeling unhappy, unsatisfied or negative in any way at any time – remember to think what you would prefer to feel or experience instead and ask a question such as:

 

  • ‘I wonder how I can easily find a way to feel that feeling (or something even better) within the next 10 minutes’.

 

These are your Positive Focus Questions.  

 

In later tools you’ll be learning about other ways to ask yourself questions – which are amazingly simple yet get phenomenally powerful results.

 


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Tool 2 – Focus Questions

 


You already know now how important your thoughts are – that they are what cause you to feel good or to feel bad for example.

 

But we haven’t yet talked about how powerful your thoughts can be when you ask yourself questions in your mind.

 

 

If you’re like most people – you’re probably not aware of the truly massive impact that asking yourself simple questions can have on your life and on your relationship.

 

Every aspect of your life – including relationships and love – is affected by the questions you are already asking yourself in your head – mostly without even being aware you’re doing it.  And can be completely transformed by asking different questions.

 

You’ve probably noticed by now that – all the time you are talking in your head.   But you may not have noticed that you’re constantly asking yourself questions.

 

You’ll soon understand why its crucial you now start to notice and take control of the questions you ask yourself.  

 

Did you know for example that – for every question you ask – your unconscious mind has to find you an answer?  

 

It’s automatically programmed that way.

When you ask a question – your unconscious mind searches for an answer – going through all the ‘filing cabinets’ in your mind – through your past experiences, your beliefs, your expectations and so on – until it comes up with an answer that matches the question – which is very often not be the truth – but instead something you’ve convinced yourself is true.

 

So now imagine what sort of answers you’re likely to get if you ask yourself negative questions in a negatives tone. 

 

Such as:

 

  • ‘Why does everything go wrong for me?’
  • ‘Why doesn’t he / she love me?’
  • ‘Why can’t I be happy?’
  • ‘Why do I always lose out in love?’
  • ‘Why am I so ugly?’
  • ‘Why doesn’t he / she treat me better / listen to me / want to spend more time with me / stay faithful to me / respect me?’

 

If you ask negative questions like these, you’re automatically programming your unconscious mind to look for negative answers – so it will search through all your memories and beliefs, past experiences and expectations and come up with an answer that seems to fit – such as:

 

  • ‘Because you’re a loser or you’re not intelligent enough.’
  • ‘Because you’re not good looking enough or not good enough in bed.’
  • ‘Because you don’t have enough money or the right contacts or the right background or the right genes.’
  • ‘Because you don’t deserve to be loved.’

 

Any of which thoughts make you feel even worse – and the downward spiral to misery and loneliness accelerates.  

Not only do you feel worse and worse, but you attract more and more of what you don’t want – and so on.

 

So the questions you ask yourself have a huge influence on what you focus on – how you feel, what you notice, what you do, the sort of relationships you attract or don’t attract and how you experience them.

 

The great news is – you can now use this knowledge to change your questions, your relationships and your life – and start to enjoy love and happiness from now on!

 

You can now make sure you always ask yourself questions that can only give you supportive answers – thoughts that make sure you feel happy and enjoy love at all times.

 

The getting the best results from your questions is to remember your unconscious mind needs space to find the answer for you.

 

Remember what happens when you see someone you know but can’t remember his or her name.

 

The harder you try to remember – ‘What is this person’s name?’ – the more difficult it becomes to find the answer.

But if you stop trying and think about or do something different and the answer suddenly comes to you apparently ‘out of the blue’.

 

 

As soon as you’ve asked your focus question make sure to let go and get on with something else and free up your unconscious mind to find the answer.

 

START TO USE POSITIVE FOCUS QUESTIONS NOW

 


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Tool 1 – Heart Breathing

 



 

The Heart Breathing Tool is going to help you to be in touch with your inner self and your inner needs – so you’re ready to make the changes that will help you enjoy love and happiness as quickly and as easily as possible.

 

As part of this program you will have downloaded the Heart Breathing Audio – which leads you through a simple Heart Breathing session.

 

Most people find it easier at first to do the Heart Breathing with a guide, but you can do it at any time on your own if you prefer – or if you don’t have the audio with you.

 

Heart Breathing is in fact very simple – here’s what you do:

 

Find a quiet place where you can sit or lie comfortably without being disturbed for 10 minutes or so.

 

If you’re sitting, have your feet flat on the ground and separated a little and your hands on you lap, not touching each other.

 

If you’re lying have your feet slightly apart and your hands by your sides.

 

Close your eyes and start to watch your breathing.   There is no need to change anything about your breathing – just watch as it goes in and out.

 

Now as you watch your breathing – just imagine that each breath passes in through your heart – and then out again through your heart.  You don’t have to picture it – just imagine it’s happening.

This connects you automatically with your heart and your healing energy.

 

Next scan your body and start to notice any discomfort, pain or uncomfortable or unpleasant sensations – such as uncomfortable heat or cold or tingling or throbbing.

 

Just notice the sensations without trying to change them or to judge them in any way.  Notice them as if you’re watching them pass through someone else’s body – with interest – rather than getting involved in the sensations.

 

And notice what happens to those sensations as you just watch them and allow them to be just the way they are.

 

When you’ve done this for a few minutes – start to become aware of any thoughts passing through your mind.

 

In the same way – just notice the thoughts without trying to change them or judge them in any way. 

 

Notice them as if you’re watching them pass through someone else’s mind – with interest – rather than getting involved in the thoughts.

 

Notice what happens to the thoughts as you just watch them and allow them to be just the way they are.

 

CLICK HERE NOW to move on to discover Power Tool 2

 

 

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Step 4a – Identifying Your Current Blocks

 


 

Assessment 1

 

Think about your partner and write down the following things.

If you don’t have a partner right now you can think about a past partner – or you can think about another relationship that you think could be better (friends or family for example) and answer the questions thinking about the people in that relationship.

 

Write down everything that comes to your mind – without trying to be nice or reasonable or fair – it helps to get it all out on paper – and whatever you write will help you access your hidden blocks. 

 

a.    What is it about your partner (or that other persons partner) you don’t like or that makes you angry, or sad, or disappointed, or uncomfortable in some other way?

 

b.    How could they be different – what would you want them to do or how do you want them to change?

 

c.     What would you say they should or shouldn’t do that they do or don’t do already?

 

d.    What would they need to do for you to be happy and comfortable?

 

e.    How would you describe them?

 

f.      What don’t you want to happen with them ever again?

 

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Assessment Number 2

 

Think about 3 other people you wouldn’t want to be like – people you don’t like, don’t respect, don’t feel comfortable with or you still feel angry when you think about (even if they’re no longer in your life).

 

Now answer the same questions about these 3 people as you answered for your partner in the first assessment.

 

Assessment Number 3

 

Think about 3 other people who you’re certain don’t – or who wouldn’t – like you or approve of you – if they knew something about what sort of person you really are, what you’ve done or what you’re doing.  

 

Write down what it is these people don’t or wouldn’t like or approve of.

 

Assessment Number 4

 

Think about 3 people who you believe don’t really deserve what they’ve achieved in life – whether it’s a happy marriage, financial or business success, sporting success, a happy family, a great body, an easy life or anything else you can think of.

 

Why don’t they deserve the things they have?

 

Assessment Number 5

 

Write down what you would change about yourself if you could. 

 

How do you think you’re not good enough – including physically, as a person, in your career and in relationships?

 

 

Assessment Number 6

 

Now list any way or ways you suffer physically – any aches or pains, migraines, weight or appetite problems, digestive or bowel problems, gynecological problems, physical sexual problems, problems with your hair, nails or skin, infections, problems with breathing or lack of energy, problems with kidneys, bladder or prostate and any other ill health problems.

 

Assessment Number 7

 

This is a really good one!

 

Take off your clothes and stand in front of a mirror where you can see your whole body.   (If you can’t do it – write down how you stop yourself – the thoughts you think – what you tell yourself and the feelings you experience).

 

Notice – and make a list of – everything you criticize or feel uncomfortable about when you look at yourself (or think about looking at yourself).  

 

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Assessment Number 8

 

Now think about sex – about the experiences you’ve had and the experiences you would like to have.

 

How do you feel when you think about sex?

What needs to change for you to enjoy sex?

What would you like to be different in any way?

What makes you feel bad?

What has made you feel bad in the past?

What don’t you want to do?

What do you do wrong?

What do other people do wrong?

 

 

What Next?

 

You may wonder what all this has to do with mending your relationship or attracting the love of your life or even enjoying sexual ecstasy – but you’ll soon discover that anything you feel uncomfortable about in your mind or in your body – is a key to something important that’s been blocking your love, your happiness and your sexual ecstasy – till now.

 

And things you don’t like or criticize in other people are clues to what you don’t like in yourself.

 

For best results now – make sure you complete the assessments before you start to read about and use tools 3 – 7.

 

If you need more help completing the assessments – Tool Number 1 – The Heart Breathing Tool and Tool Number 2 will both give you ways to identify your hidden blocks more easily.

 

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Next you’ll be discovering the 7 most powerful tools you can use to clear all your blocks – but before you do – here is the daily schedule I suggest you follow for the first 30 days to make sure you get the best and the fastest results possible.

 

You’re about to learn and use not just 1 but 7 phenomenally powerful clearing tools – to help you clear all your blocks to love, happiness and sexual ecstasy – for life. 

 

I’ve put together all the most powerful tools I’ve discovered or developed over the years – so you have access to all of them.  

 

I’ve found one tool may suit one person more than another and one may work better for a particular block or in a particular situation.  

 

Sometimes you may choose to use the tools in combination.

 

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7 basic steps

 

Step 4 – Removing Blocks

 


Clear all unsupportive thoughts, feelings, emotions and energy blocks

 

You are about to get access to all the best, simplest, fastest and most effective tools I’ve found to get the results you desire in any situation.

 

You’ll soon find that each of the transformational clearing tools you’re about to discover is phenomenally powerful in it’s own right and even if used on it’s own.

 

Many people achieve great results never using more than one of the tools.

 

So if you find a tool that is effective for you and you choose to use one of the tools and not the others you’ll still get amazing results.  However – you may notice you get even better results more quickly and more easily using these tools in combination.

 

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You may have learned to use some of these tools previously from me or in other ways, but I encourage you to use them again now as if you’ve never seen them before – to make the most of the specially combined program.

 

If you haven’t used these tools before – they may seem strange to you – they certainly did to me when I first heard or read about them.  However odd they might seem – use them anyway – no one else will know – and you’ll have no idea of the phenomenal results you could be getting if you don’t bother to use these incredibly powerful tools.

 

Your Daily Practices schedule will suggest how to use the tools to get the best results possible in 90 days or less.

 

At the end of the 90 days you can choose to continue the daily practices or to use the tools as they best fit into your life.

 

I’m sure you’ll then find you continue to use the tools and to remind yourself to use them for life – since it’s likely there will always be more clearing you can do with every new challenge in life!

 

The first two tools – the Heart Breathing Tool and the Focus Questions Tool will help you to identify hidden blocks you might not even be aware of.

 

In addition you can use the following assessment questions to uncover other well-hidden blocks – so you can resolve all your relationship and sexual problems – and start to enjoy love, happiness and sexual ecstasy to the full.

 

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You’ll probably find the assessment questions fun and therapeutic just in themselves – and – when you come to use the tools you’ll know where to start for best results!

 

When you answer the questions be as honest as possible – without judging or censoring yourself – so you get to what it is you really need to know to use the tools most effectively.

 

Identify Your Current Blocks To Love Happiness & Sexual Ecstasy

 

 

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7 basic steps

 

Step 3 – How To Take Control

 


 

How To Harness The Power of Fun & Laughter

 

Now try this exercise for some more fun …

 

First – choose one of the following situations or exercises to focus on.  Choose a situation in the past, in the future or in the present – you can associate with fun and laughter.

 

Here are some examples you might choose from:

  • A time in the past when you found something so funny you couldn’t stop laughing.

  • A time in the future when you can imagine yourself having fun and laughing so much you cry.

  • Listen to a recording of people laughing.

  • Watch a very funny film or DVD.

  • If you cannot remember or imagine or find any situation or recording that will make you laugh do the following exercise:           

 

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Now as you breathe out start to laugh.

It doesn’t matter how fake the laugh is or if you don’t feel like laughing in the slightest – just do it anyway.  

Your body and your mind don’t know the difference between real laughter and fake laughter – so you will get the benefits whether your laugh becomes a real laugh or is simply acting.

 

Perhaps you know that people have healed completely from some very serious and even life threatening diseases simply by using laughter therapy such as this.

 

Not only does it feel good to laugh, but as you smile and laugh, your body releases natural endorphins, which lift your mood, reduce pain and discomfort and help the healing process.

 

Continue this exercise for 3-10 minutes or longer if you wish.

 

You can include both your loving pleasure exercise and your laughter exercise as part of your daily practices – at least once a day.

 

You can also use them at moments when you notice feeling less than happy – for example if you notice feeling fed up, anxious, angry, blaming, hurt, jealous, abandoned, not good enough or any other negative or unsupportive emotion.

 

Take some time out, close your eyes and take yourself back again to that pleasurable time and experience. 

 

Again – if you block yourself from doing or enjoying these practices in any way – use the tools you’re about to learn – to clear those blocks to love, happiness, fun, laughter and sexual ecstasy.

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Enjoy these practices at least twice daily for the next 30 days and notice the changes in your life and in your relationship.

 

Now you have experienced one way to take control of your feelings and to feel good – by simply:

 

  • Remembering a time when you had great feelings or

  • Imagining a situation in the future that would give you great feelings or

  • Finding a physical way to give yourself great feelings right now

 

Soon you will also have powerful tools to clear away any blocks that might try to stop you from accessing or enjoying that pleasure and those feelings.

 

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Step 3b – How To Take Control

 

 

How To Harness The Power of Love & Sexual Pleasure

 

 

 

Have you ever noticed:

 

  • How much better your health is

  • How much better your business runs

  • How much more money you make

  • How much easier everything is

  • How many more friends you have

  • How much more confidence and energy you have

  • And how much more you enjoy life…

 

When you re enjoying a loving relationship and when you re having great sex?

 

 

 

Perhaps you hadn’t yet realized the full power of true loving and positive sexual feelings and energy in every aspect of life.

 

 

And if you’re like most people you probably were not aware either that there s a way to harness that power not only to attract all the love, the happiness and the sexual pleasure you could ever desire but also to enjoy better health, more energy, more confidence and more success in every way.

 

 

Try this exercise for fun and pleasure

 

 

 

First choose one of the following situations or exercises to focus on.

 

make love for life pic 7Choose a situation in the past, in the future or in the present you can associate with happy loving, pleasurable or wonderful sexual feelings.

 

 

Here are some examples you might choose from:

 

 

  • A time in the past when you felt very strong loving feelings.

Perhaps a time when you were holding your child, your grandchild or a loved pet.

You might choose of a time spent with a loved partner as long as the only feelings you associate with that occasion are positive loving feelings & happiness or sexual pleasure.

 

 

 

  • A time in the future when you can imagine yourself enjoying your ideal happy loving relationship & complete sexual ecstasy.

 

 

  • A time when you can remember having enjoyed sexual pleasure on your own.

 

 

  • Enjoying sexual pleasure on your own now.

If you don t know how to do this yet you soon will and if the thought of giving yourself sexual pleasure makes you uncomfortable recognize you have a block that will need clearing if you are to enjoy real love, happiness, pleasure and health you ll know everything you need to do this very soon.

 

 

 

  • If you cannot imagine any situation to feel good about in this way do the first chakra awakening exercise in present time:

 

 

Sit upright with a rolled up cushion or head roll placed comfortably under you as if you are sitting astride a saddle so that you are aware of a comfortable pressure on your perineum between your anus (back passage) and your vagina or penis.

 

 

Gently and slowly move your tail bone forwards and upwards so it curves under you and at the same time notice how you automatically squeeze your pelvic muscles in and upwards.

 

 

Then in one continuous movement gently and slowly move your tail bone backwards and upwards curving the bottom of your spine and automatically relax your pelvic muscles.

 

 

Now combine the movements with your breathing and continue to repeat these movements in a slow smooth process noticing the sensations in your body and allowing them to be just the way they are.

 

 

 

NOTE: If you don’t allow yourself to do any of these exercises this is also a sign you have blocks to clear.

 

 

 

You ll soon be learning how to clear all your blocks so for now just keep a note of this block without criticism or judgment and then come back to the exercise when you have the tools to do some clearing.

 

 

 

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When you ve chosen your situation or exercise close your eyes and do the exercise or imagine you re in that situation right now.

 

 

Take your time to notice what you experience in any way what you hear or see and especially what you tell yourself and what you feel even if you don t hear or see anything clearly at first.

 

 

Allow yourself to spend time experiencing and enjoying those feelings.

 

 

Notice where you feel the feelings and sensations in your body.

 

 

 

Allow the feelings to naturally move, to spread and to grow.

 

 

Give yourself plenty of time to do this.

 

 

If any thought or feeling or sensation stops you enjoying the experience keep a note of what stopped you ready to do more clearing for these blocks.

 

 

Do this exercise now before

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THE ULTIMATE LOVE SECRET

 

7 basic steps

 

Step 3 – How To Take Control

 

Now you’re about to discover just how you can take control of your feelings, your life and your relationship (with some extra powerful help) so you can enjoy love, happiness and sexual ecstasy in no time at all now and for life!

 


So here’s where you discover how to take conscious control of your feelings, your relationship and your life.

 

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When I first heard about the ideas and methods you’re about to learn and use – I didn’t believe these methods could work – to attract love and happiness – or anything else for that matter.

 

So it was to my total amazement – when – in just 7 weeks – I found myself in love, married & enjoying great sex!

 

I decided to give the methods a go – despite my disbelief – because I realized I had nothing to lose by doing something different – since everything else I’d tried over many years up to that point – including years of counseling and therapy – hadn’t brought me the love, happiness & sexual ecstasy I desired.

 

You’ll soon be learning more about exactly how I used the tools and techniques your about to get your hands on to attract a new husband in less than 7 weeks.

 

Although over the years I’ve made some major modifications to the plan I used then and – from my own experience – I now recommend you take a little longer than I did to get to know your new partner before you decide to marry – I’m telling you about it because it was the first time I experienced the true power of just one element of The Ultimate Love Secret.

 

As you learn how to control your feelings deliberately and consciously –– you’ll also discover – you have the power to change your whole life for the better.

 

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You’ll soon discover it doesn’t matter where you’re starting from or what you thought was causing problems in your relationship or in sex – you have the power (or access to the power) to change it all around and get the results you truly desire from now on.  

 

You’ll get the results you most desire even if you thought you couldn’t – or you thought your body wasn’t capable – or you were convinced there was something wrong with you!

 

As I said at the start – I don’t expect you to believe the things I’m telling you right now – why would you – until you’ve had chance to experience this amazing power for yourself. 

 

So let’s get started!

 

 


 

 

 

  

   

 

Relationship Problem Advice

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  • Still searching for your soul mate
  • Wondering if you should stay or go
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  • Heartbroken after a breakup
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If you’re not truly and deeply happy in your relationship right now – YOU NEED the benefits of this Membership!

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My name is Dr Anne Curtis and you may already be aware that since 1986 I’ve been successfully working with individuals and couples – researching , developing and teaching the fastest and most effective methods to attract and sustain true and lasting love and a deep, meaningful and thoroughly satisfying intimacy that will last and keep growing for life.

Recently I’ve been asked by so many people – both online and off – for help with sexual and relationship problems – I decided it was about time I put together a total program that anyone can use to achieve true love and phenomenal intimacy – in the privacy of your own home or office, in your own time and at your own pace – effectively solving all your relationship problems – and far more.

Before I tell you what it involves – here are just a few of the things you’re guaranteed to gain from your exclusive Make Love For Life Membership:

  • How to have better sex – much much better sex!
  • How to attract true love and happiness.
  • How to attract great wealth and great health.
  • How to use the power of your so far untapped sexual energy to benefit your life and the world.
  • How to quickly and easily attract your ideal partner – your soul mate – if you’re not together already.
  • How to be certain you’ve found the one for you.
  • The 3 big mistakes that kept you lacking real love and deep intimacy till now.
  • The 3 things you MUST avoid – or you will never find and keep your soul mate.
  • What you need to do to have love and sexual attraction grow every day and last for life.
  • Why if you follow conventional relationship advice your relationship is practically guaranteed to fail.
  • What makes a really great relationship.
  • How to eliminate any and every sexual problem you’ve had until now.
  • How your whole life can be transformed when you are truly enjoying a deep, meaningful and satisfying sexual relationship.
  • How to know and love your body and discover what you need to enjoy deepest sexual satisfaction.
  • What your partner needs most of all.
  • The 3 things you must know to have your partner want you more and more.
  • How to enjoy an intimate relationship way beyond anything you ever thought possible.
  • How to have an orgasm even if you’ve never had one or thought you never could (NOTE – one woman experiences fabulous orgasm even though she had all her sexual organs removed!).
  • How to help your partner enjoy the best orgasms of his or her life!
  • How to clear past sexual traumas and enjoy intimacy now.
  • How to enjoy multiple orgasms – whether you are a man or a woman.
  • How To Eliminate Any & Every Relationship Problem Quickly & Easily
  • Understand why your relationships have failed in the past.
  • How to change your relationship patterns – so you can enjoy love for life.
  • How to deal effectively with jealousy, anger, hatred, self loathing, lack of self-esteem or heart break.
  • What you must know to have your relationship and your sexual intimacy stay great – for life.
  • What you must do to keep the passion and the attraction alive.
  • What you absolutely must not do if you want your relationship and your sex life to be phenomenally successful and to keep on growing day after day.

In addition you’ve probably also noticed it’s great having really effective therapy and techniques that help you to attract and enjoy love, but it’s also crucial while you’re working through the membership program to have all the support you need – both from experts and from others going through the process. 

So there will be plenty of webinars and interviews with experts where you can listen in and get all your questions answered.

Plus – if you want it – you’ll have the opportunity to meet other like-minded people looking for true and lasting love and intimacy beyond compare.

So as an exclusive member of Make Love For Life you’ll also have the opportunity to gain a massive amount from:

  • The experience of the world’s top love and relationship advice experts.
  • The support of the Make Love For Life community – to make sure you’re able to love and respect yourself totally.
  • The opportunity to make new friendships and new relationships with likeminded exclusive members of the Make Love For Life community.

WARNING 1

This membership program may not be for you. 

Please do not join unless you are ready to:

  • Enjoy a totally fulfilling, passionate, long lasting relationship.
  • Discover how to have better sex – phenomenally better sex.
  • Experience better health, more happiness, more success and even more money – at the same time.

WARNING 2

There is only limited membership available at the very low $14.99/year special offer price – so please sign up immediately immediately the membership opens – to take advantage of this opportunity before membership price reverts to $1499 per year.   

You may already have experienced and even spent a lot of money getting relationship problem advice.

BUT – unlike other therapies or relationship problem advice, you’re about to discover methods you’ve never used before – methods guaranteed to bring you and your relationship back to life or to a much higher level of pleasure and fulfillment.

In addition you’ll notice unexpected benefits in every other aspect of your life.

If you’ve had money worries or struggled to be successful in one way or another, if you’ve lacked confidence or friends or had health problems – you’ll notice all your problems resolve when you use the Make Love For Life Program.

Have you noticed – that truly successful people – as well as enjoying financial security – also enjoy happy marriages or partnerships.   And have you ever wondered why that is?

Using the methods you’re about to learn – as you attract love you can be sure you will also attract an abundance of money and of health.  And – as you may already have realised – it’s of course much easier to enjoy a happy loving relationship when all your money worries are gone!

You’ll soon discover as you go through the Make Love For Life Membership program and use the techniques you’re about to learn – that not only is The Program fun and enjoyable – but the results you experience using these methods are truly astounding.    

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I look forward to guiding you on your journey to love, happiness and much much better sex!!!

best wishes

Dr Anne Curtis

WARNING 1

This membership program may not be for you. 

Please do not join unless you are ready to:

  • Enjoy a totally fulfilling, passionate, long lasting relationship.
  • Discover how to have better sex – phenomenally better sex.
  • Experience better health, more happiness, more success and even more money – at the same time.

WARNING 2

There is only limited membership available at the very low $14.99/year special offer price – so please sign up immediately immediately the membership opens – to take advantage of this opportunity before membership price reverts to $1,499 per year.  

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