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The Power Clearing Tools

 

Tool 4 – Visualizing & Vision Boards – Continued

 

 

How To Use A Manifesting List

 

Many people use manifesting lists of one sort or another to help attract into their lives the people and the things they imagine will make them most happy.

 

I’ve tried almost every form of list described and found the most effective method for visualizing and ‘manifesting’ is as follows:

 

Take out your Manifesting Note Book.

 

Label the book – My Manifesting Book.

 

Make sure you have things around you that encourage you to feel good – happy pictures for example – and soft cushions or other objects that feel good to touch.

 

If particular music or particular sounds give you happy, positive feelings find some way to listen to that music or those sounds comfortably in your writing spot.

 

Before you go to bed, make sure your writing spot is prepared and set your books and pen or pencil you enjoy writing with ready at the spot.

 

As soon as get up and have used the bathroom, get yourself settled in your writing spot.

 

Open your Manifesting Book and start to write.

 

Write a list of everything you’d like, or you’d like to be different, in your life right now, in every little detail – make sure to write as if you have all these things already.

 

Here are some examples of what you might write on your list:

I am totally happy

I enjoy my life to the full

I enjoy an abundance of energy

I enjoy an abundance of love in my life

 

I enjoy great health

 

I enjoy financial abundance always now

I enjoy a happy loving relationship with my partner

We love each other more and more each day

Our relationship gets better and better every day

I have the correct partner for me

I am only allowed to have the correct partner for me

I am only allowed to make the correct decisions

I am only allowed to say the correct things to every one I communicate with

I am only allowed to do the correct things in all situations

We support each other in all the best possible ways

I respect my partner

I enjoy relaxing

I find plenty of time for relaxation and meditation

I find it easy to get up in the morning

I find it easy to follow all the steps and use all the tools in the program

I get great results by using the clearing tools regularly

I enjoy fun and laughter every day

I am a great lover

I enjoy my relationship

I love myself completely

I have the best possible partner for me

I experience love easily now

My relationship is great fun now

 

I enjoy making love

 

Making love gets better and better all the time

I know for certain everything is going just the way it should

I find something positive in everything that happens

I make the most of every moment of my life

I have the correct body size and shape for me

I easily notice all my emotions

I easily let go of all past programming

I allow myself to enjoy love easily now

I allow myself to enjoy happiness easily now

I allow life to be easy

 

Beware:

 

• Remember – you cannot manifest for other people – that’s their business – so if you notice you’ve written things you want someone else in particular to do or be or have happen for them – cross those things off your list.

 

It’s ok to write – my partner brings me presents every day – as long as you’re open to the possibility of having a new partner who will do this rather than expecting your current partner to change!

 

• If you notice you’ve written things you don’t want rather than what you do want – turn those things around.

 

So – if you’ve written my partner doesn’t stay out drinking with his friends for hours, or my wife doesn’t nag me – make sure to write what you want instead of that situation. 

 

For example – my partner spends every evening at home having fun with me or – my wife is such fun to be with and always has kind words for me.

 

• Most of us find it easier to say what we want than what we don’t want initially – it’s what we hear most people telling us all day every day.

 

 

And it’s a great idea to write down all the things you don’t want on a separate list you can then throw away – as soon as you’ve put the opposites down on your manifesting list!

 

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The Power Clearing Tools

 

Tool 4 – Visualizing & Vision Boards

 

I told you earlier that I used some of these powerful tools and found myself happily married (coming from no relationship at all) in just 7 weeks. 

Well this is the tool I used to do just that. 

 

However – because I discovered some flaws in the basic process I used to do that – what you’re about to learn is the updated version – which is just as powerful – in fact probably more powerful – but has all the risk removed!

 

Visualization

 

Visualization has been scientifically proved time and time again to be one of the most effective powers of your mind for making changes and attracting the things you desire into your life.

 

You already know that the particular energy vibrations of your thoughts and feelings are what you attract situations, people and things into your life – so that the more high energy loving, happy, grateful and joyful thoughts and feelings you experience – the more positive things you attract into your life.

 

So now you’re going to discover how to best use visualization to attract the love and happiness and the sort of relationship you most desire.

 

Some people have a belief that they ‘can’t visualize’. 

If you have that belief – ask yourself:

‘Can I be absolutely certain I can’t visualize?’

And then – think about your bedroom, think about how many pillows you have on your bed and the colour of your bed covers, what you have up at the windows and whether or not you have pictures or mirrors on the walls. 

 

How many cupboards or dressers do you have in your bedroom and what do you have on the floor?

 

Or simply remember what did you have for breakfast this morning?

Or where were you when you got dressed?

 

To answer any of those questions you have to be able to visualize even if you’re not aware yet of seeing actual pictures.

 

So if you were able to answer any of the question – now you know you can visualize even if you thought you couldn’t.

 

Visualizing just means imagining – and it doesn’t matter how you imagine – some people see pictures when they’re imagining and some people don’t.

 

Some people imagine more vividly when they hear particular music that reminds them of times when they felt most happy for example. 

 

Or you may be someone who imagines more easily when you smell or touch things that remind you of good times or of things you’d like to experience.

 

The main aim of visualizing is to imagine yourself in the situation you’d most like to be in, feeling the great feelings you’ll feel when you’re there and hearing whatever you’ll hear as if you’re already there now.

Vision boards

 

Vision boards can be a great help with stimulating your imagination and your feelings – along with sounds and music and objects that also remind you of the great feelings you want to feel more of.

 

Vision boards can be anything from a simple scrap book – in which you stick pictures that represent the things you’re attracting and that help you feel those wonderful feelings when you just look at them or hear yourself describing them – to a computer generated slide show – with your words or sounds superimposed.

 

You can buy computer programs to make vision boards, but I’ve found the easiest way is to use FREE programs such as Photo Story 3 on a PC or iPhoto on the Mac – along with audacity if you want to record and edit a sound track of your own.

In the Vista operating system you also have an option to place your own photos down the side of the desktop to remind you of love and happiness and any other great feelings you want to attract more of.

 

How To Use A Manifesting List To Attract & Keep Love & Happiness

 

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The Power Clearing Tools

 

Tool 3 – Ho’Oponopono

 

 

Ho’Oponopono is probably the easiest to learn and to use, which is why I’ve suggested learning and practicing it first, but all the tools become easier to use in any situation when you’ve had some practice.

 

But – before you learn exactly how to use this tool I have to warn you that – as with many of these tools – you probably won’t believe it will do anything until you use it for yourself.

When I first heard about it I was extremely sceptical and if it hadn’t been for the fact that it was highly recommended to me by Dr Joe Vitale, whose opinion I’ve come to value greatly I probably wouldn’t even have bothered to give it a go.   But I’m so glad I did, because I’ve been able to experience absolutely astounding results – and it’s so easy to use.

Recently a friend was having relationship problems and asked me for help.  She was using other clearing tools I’d taught her – including tapping – but she was still stuck and feeling miserable.

 

I told her about this powerful tool.  She admitted she was very reluctant to use it to begin with, telling herself it couldn’t possibly help (remember to ask yourself always – ‘do I know for sure that’s true?’). 

I finally persuaded her to give it a go and she was amazed to discover she felt better and clearer in no time at all!
So even though you probably won’t believe it will do anything at all until you experience the results for yourself, I urge you to give this tool a chance – however simple it might seem. 

 

And remember – no one will know you’re using it – so you have nothing to lose – unless you don’t use it at all!!!

 

Ho’oponopono originates in Hawaii and was regularly used there by families and individuals to clear problems and achieve peace and success.

 

In his wonderful program The Missing Secret – Dr Joe Vitale explains how he came to learn about this amazingly powerful clearing method from Dr. Ihaleakalá Hew Len.

 

Joe had heard about the phenomenal results Dr. Ihaleakalá Hew Len had been getting with inmates in the hospital for the criminally insane in Hawaii and went to meet Dr. Ihaleakalá Hew Len to find out how he was doing it.   

 

To cut a long story short – you can hear the complete story and much more information in The Missing Secret – it turned out Dr Hew Len was getting these results by using the very simple Ho’oponopono clearing technique.

 

This technique is based on the understanding that you are already a whole and perfect being – a part of the eternal loving energy or God if you prefer – but that your human thoughts and beliefs persuade you otherwise – just as we discuss in all the other clearing methods.

 

 

With this tool – the clearing is also brought about by noticing when you feel uncomfortable or blocked.   When you do you simply repeat 4 phrases in your head.

 

The principle behind the method is that you’re repeating these phrases to the inner you – the whole you – the you without the imperfections you’re currently projecting on yourself to make yourself feel bad about something or someone.

 

It’s important to remember you’re not talking to anyone but to your inner self (or to the God who you’re a part of if you prefer).

 

One of the reasons my friend resisted using this tool at first was because I didn’t explain this principle well enough and she imagined she was talking to the person upsetting her – rather than to her inner self.

So what are these 4 powerful clearing phrases?

They’re very simple: 

 

Please forgive me

 

I love you

 

Thank you

 

I’m sorry

 

You can say the phrases in any order you choose at any time – just keep saying them as often as possible – especially when you’re aware of uncomfortable or unsupportive thoughts or feelings.  

 

I find the order comes to me naturally and changes for depending on the situation and how I’m feeling.

This is a great tool at any time and I’ve found its particularly useful if you’re feeling stressed or unhappy, but you don’t have the time or the energy to think anything through.

 

It’s also great to use as a regular meditation throughout the day – clearing all the time rather than allowing your mind to be filled with negative thoughts or questions!

 

In addition you can use it while you’re using any of the other clearing methods to allow them to work even more easily and smoothly.
Get ready for some amazing results!

Have fun and enjoy this new tool to the full.

 

 

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The Power Clearing Tools

 

Tool 2 – Focus Questions – Continued

 

 

To Attract Love, Happiness & Sexual Ecstasy

 

 

First think about what you’d like to experience or feel.

(NOTE: not how you’d like someone else to change).

 

And when you’d like to feel that feel or have that experience. 

Remember – if you don’t state when you’d like to have your answers – your unconscious mind might give you the results you want – but in 10 or 20 years time!

So here are some examples of what you might choose to experience:

 

• I’d like to feel happy by the end of today.

 

• I’d like to feel secure always now.

 

• I’d like to have fun today.

 

• I’d like to enjoy my relationship from now on.

 

• I’d like to find it easy to use each of the tools in this program as I come to use them.

 

• I’d like to mend my relationship and enjoy love and happiness 30 days from now or even less.

 

• I’d like to easily find time to follow this program and do the daily practices every day from today.

 

• I’d like to feel good / confident / happy / loving / special when I’m around my partner by the end of this week.

 

Now write out the questions you’re going to ask yourself – to get these results.

 

• Start each question with ‘I wonder how I can notice’. 

 

• Also add in ‘easily’ as often as possible – since most of us have a tendency to make life unnecessarily hard or complicated!

 

• And now add in each of the things on the list you made previously.

 

For example: 

 

• ‘I wonder how I can easily notice I feel happy by the end of today.’

 

• ‘I wonder how I can easily notice I feel secure always now.’

 

• ‘I wonder how I can easily notice I’m having fun today.’

 

• ‘I wonder how I can easily notice in what ways I’m enjoying my relationship now.’

 

• ‘I wonder how I can notice I find it easy to use each of the tools in this program as I come to use them.’

 

• ‘I wonder how I can easily notice I’ve mended my relationship and I’m enjoying love and happiness in 30 days from now or even less.’

 

• ‘I wonder how I can notice I can easily find time to follow the program and do the daily practices every day from today.’

 

• ‘I wonder how I can notice I how easy it is to feel good / confident / happy / loving / special when I’m around my partner by the end of this week’.

 

• ‘I wonder how I can notice how easy it is to love myself more and more every day now.’

 

• ‘I wonder how in the next 90 days or less I can easily uncover and clear all the blocks that have stopped me enjoying true love, happiness and sexual pleasure until now.’

 

• ‘I wonder how I can find it easy to notice and follow my inner loving guidance from this moment on.’

 

At the end of your list add – THIS OR SOMETHING EVEN BETTER!

 

This is a useful addition because there may be better alternatives you haven’t even consciously become aware of or considered yet (for example a better relationship or way of relating) – so this allows you to be open to all the best possibilities.

 

Keep your list in a note book you can have with you – so you can:

 

• Read a few questions for inspiration any time you need to.

 

• Add more questions to the list when you think of other feelings or things you might want.

 

• Keep note of all the great results you get.

 

Now put your questions away and read on – or better still take a walk or do something different altogether – before you come back and read then next part of the program.

 

When you focus on doing something else you allow your unconscious mind – your true self – and the universal energy – to find the answers you asked for – or something even better.

 

Now if at any time in your day you find yourself feeling unhappy, unsatisfied or negative in any way at any time – remember to think what you would prefer to feel or experience instead and ask a question such as:

 

• ‘I wonder how I can easily find a way to feel that feeling (or something even better) within the next 10 minutes’.

 

These are your Positive Focus Questions.  

 

In later tools you’ll be learning about other ways to ask yourself questions – which are amazingly simple yet get phenomenally powerful results.

 

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The Power Clearing Tools

 

Tool 2 – Focus Questions

 

You already know now how important your thoughts are – that they are what cause you to feel good or to feel bad for example.

 

But we haven’t yet talked about how powerful your thoughts can be when you ask yourself questions in your mind.

 

 

If you’re like most people – you’re probably not aware of the truly massive impact that asking yourself simple questions can have on your life and on your relationship.

 

Every aspect of your life – including relationships and love – is affected by the questions you are already asking yourself in your head – mostly without even being aware you’re doing it.  And can be completely transformed by asking different questions.

 

You’ve probably noticed by now that – all the time you are talking in your head.   But you may not have noticed that you’re constantly asking yourself questions.

 

You’ll soon understand why its crucial you now start to notice and take control of the questions you ask yourself.  

 

Did you know for example that – for every question you ask – your unconscious mind has to find you an answer?  

 

It’s automatically programmed that way.

When you ask a question – your unconscious mind searches for an answer – going through all the ‘filing cabinets’ in your mind – through your past experiences, your beliefs, your expectations and so on – until it comes up with an answer that matches the question – which is very often not be the truth – but instead something you’ve convinced yourself is true.

 

So now imagine what sort of answers you’re likely to get if you ask yourself negative questions in a negatives tone. 

 

Such as:

 

• ‘Why does everything go wrong for me?’
• ‘Why doesn’t he / she love me?’
• ‘Why can’t I be happy?’
• ‘Why do I always lose out in love?’
• ‘Why am I so ugly?’
• ‘Why doesn’t he / she treat me better / listen to me / want to spend more time with me / stay faithful to me / respect me?’

 

If you ask negative questions like these, you’re automatically programming your unconscious mind to look for negative answers – so it will search through all your memories and beliefs, past experiences and expectations and come up with an answer that seems to fit – such as:

 

• ‘Because you’re a loser or you’re not intelligent enough.’

• ‘Because you’re not good looking enough or not good enough in bed.’

• ‘Because you don’t have enough money or the right contacts or the right background or the right genes.’
• ‘Because you don’t deserve to be loved.’

 

Any of which thoughts make you feel even worse – and the downward spiral to misery and loneliness accelerates.  

Not only do you feel worse and worse, but you attract more and more of what you don’t want – and so on.

 

So the questions you ask yourself have a huge influence on what you focus on – how you feel, what you notice, what you do, the sort of relationships you attract or don’t attract and how you experience them.

 

The great news is – you can now use this knowledge to change your questions, your relationships and your life – and start to enjoy love and happiness from now on!

 

You can now make sure you always ask yourself questions that can only give you supportive answers – thoughts that make sure you feel happy and enjoy love at all times.

 

The getting the best results from your questions is to remember your unconscious mind needs space to find the answer for you.

 

Remember what happens when you see someone you know but can’t remember his or her name.

 

The harder you try to remember – ‘What is this person’s name?’ – the more difficult it becomes to find the answer.

But if you stop trying and think about or do something different and the answer suddenly comes to you apparently ‘out of the blue’.

 

 

As soon as you’ve asked your focus question make sure to let go and get on with something else and free up your unconscious mind to find the answer.

 

START TO USE POSITIVE FOCUS QUESTIONS NOW

 

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The Power Clearing Tools

 

Tool 1 – Heart Breathing

 

 

The Heart Breathing Tool is going to help you to be in touch with your inner self and your inner needs – so you’re ready to make the changes that will help you enjoy love and happiness as quickly and as easily as possible.

 

As part of this program you will have downloaded the Heart Breathing Audio – which leads you through a simple Heart Breathing session.

 

Most people find it easier at first to do the Heart Breathing with a guide, but you can do it at any time on your own if you prefer – or if you don’t have the audio with you.

 

Heart Breathing is in fact very simple – here’s what you do:

 

Find a quiet place where you can sit or lie comfortably without being disturbed for 10 minutes or so.

 

If you’re sitting, have your feet flat on the ground and separated a little and your hands on you lap, not touching each other.

 

If you’re lying have your feet slightly apart and your hands by your sides.

 

Close your eyes and start to watch your breathing.   There is no need to change anything about your breathing – just watch as it goes in and out.

 

Now as you watch your breathing – just imagine that each breath passes in through your heart – and then out again through your heart.  You don’t have to picture it – just imagine it’s happening.

This connects you automatically with your heart and your healing energy.

 

Next scan your body and start to notice any discomfort, pain or uncomfortable or unpleasant sensations – such as uncomfortable heat or cold or tingling or throbbing.

 

Just notice the sensations without trying to change them or to judge them in any way.  Notice them as if you’re watching them pass through someone else’s body – with interest – rather than getting involved in the sensations.

 

And notice what happens to those sensations as you just watch them and allow them to be just the way they are.

 

When you’ve done this for a few minutes – start to become aware of any thoughts passing through your mind.

 

In the same way – just notice the thoughts without trying to change them or judge them in any way. 

 

Notice them as if you’re watching them pass through someone else’s mind – with interest – rather than getting involved in the thoughts.

 

Notice what happens to the thoughts as you just watch them and allow them to be just the way they are.

 

CLICK HERE NOW to move on to discover Power Tool 2

 

 

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7 basic steps

 

Step 4a – Identifying Your Current Blocks

 

 

Assessment 1

 

Think about your partner and write down the following things.

If you don’t have a partner right now you can think about a past partner – or you can think about another relationship that you think could be better (friends or family for example) and answer the questions thinking about the people in that relationship.

 

Write down everything that comes to your mind – without trying to be nice or reasonable or fair – it helps to get it all out on paper – and whatever you write will help you access your hidden blocks. 

 

a.    What is it about your partner (or that other persons partner) you don’t like or that makes you angry, or sad, or disappointed, or uncomfortable in some other way?

 

b.    How could they be different – what would you want them to do or how do you want them to change?

 

c.     What would you say they should or shouldn’t do that they do or don’t do already?

 

d.    What would they need to do for you to be happy and comfortable?

 

e.    How would you describe them?

 

f.      What don’t you want to happen with them ever again?

 

 

 

Assessment Number 2

 

Think about 3 other people you wouldn’t want to be like – people you don’t like, don’t respect, don’t feel comfortable with or you still feel angry when you think about (even if they’re no longer in your life).

 

Now answer the same questions about these 3 people as you answered for your partner in the first assessment.

 

Assessment Number 3

 

Think about 3 other people who you’re certain don’t – or who wouldn’t – like you or approve of you – if they knew something about what sort of person you really are, what you’ve done or what you’re doing.  

 

Write down what it is these people don’t or wouldn’t like or approve of.

 

Assessment Number 4

 

Think about 3 people who you believe don’t really deserve what they’ve achieved in life – whether it’s a happy marriage, financial or business success, sporting success, a happy family, a great body, an easy life or anything else you can think of.

 

Why don’t they deserve the things they have?

 

Assessment Number 5

 

Write down what you would change about yourself if you could. 

 

How do you think you’re not good enough – including physically, as a person, in your career and in relationships?

 

 

Assessment Number 6

 

Now list any way or ways you suffer physically – any aches or pains, migraines, weight or appetite problems, digestive or bowel problems, gynecological problems, physical sexual problems, problems with your hair, nails or skin, infections, problems with breathing or lack of energy, problems with kidneys, bladder or prostate and any other ill health problems.

 

Assessment Number 7

 

This is a really good one!

 

Take off your clothes and stand in front of a mirror where you can see your whole body.   (If you can’t do it – write down how you stop yourself – the thoughts you think – what you tell yourself and the feelings you experience).

 

Notice – and make a list of – everything you criticize or feel uncomfortable about when you look at yourself (or think about looking at yourself).  

 

 

Assessment Number 8

 

Now think about sex – about the experiences you’ve had and the experiences you would like to have.

 

How do you feel when you think about sex?

What needs to change for you to enjoy sex?

What would you like to be different in any way?

What makes you feel bad?

What has made you feel bad in the past?

What don’t you want to do?

What do you do wrong?

What do other people do wrong?

 

 

What Next?

 

You may wonder what all this has to do with mending your relationship or attracting the love of your life or even enjoying sexual ecstasy – but you’ll soon discover that anything you feel uncomfortable about in your mind or in your body – is a key to something important that’s been blocking your love, your happiness and your sexual ecstasy – till now.

 

And things you don’t like or criticize in other people are clues to what you don’t like in yourself.

 

For best results now – make sure you complete the assessments before you start to read about and use tools 3 – 7.

 

If you need more help completing the assessments – Tool Number 1 – The Heart Breathing Tool and Tool Number 2 will both give you ways to identify your hidden blocks more easily.

 

 

 

Next you’ll be discovering the 7 most powerful tools you can use to clear all your blocks – but before you do – here is the daily schedule I suggest you follow for the first 30 days to make sure you get the best and the fastest results possible.

 

You’re about to learn and use not just 1 but 7 phenomenally powerful clearing tools – to help you clear all your blocks to love, happiness and sexual ecstasy – for life. 

 

I’ve put together all the most powerful tools I’ve discovered or developed over the years – so you have access to all of them.  

 

I’ve found one tool may suit one person more than another and one may work better for a particular block or in a particular situation.  

 

Sometimes you may choose to use the tools in combination.

 

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7 basic steps

 

Step 4 – Removing Blocks

 

Clear all unsupportive thoughts, feelings, emotions and energy blocks

 

You are about to get access to all the best, simplest, fastest and most effective tools I’ve found to get the results you desire in any situation.

 

You’ll soon find that each of the transformational clearing tools you’re about to discover is phenomenally powerful in it’s own right and even if used on it’s own.

 

Many people achieve great results never using more than one of the tools.

 

So if you find a tool that is effective for you and you choose to use one of the tools and not the others you’ll still get amazing results.  However – you may notice you get even better results more quickly and more easily using these tools in combination.

 

 

You may have learned to use some of these tools previously from me or in other ways, but I encourage you to use them again now as if you’ve never seen them before – to make the most of the specially combined program.

 

If you haven’t used these tools before – they may seem strange to you – they certainly did to me when I first heard or read about them.  However odd they might seem – use them anyway – no one else will know – and you’ll have no idea of the phenomenal results you could be getting if you don’t bother to use these incredibly powerful tools.

 

Your Daily Practices schedule will suggest how to use the tools to get the best results possible in 90 days or less.

 

At the end of the 90 days you can choose to continue the daily practices or to use the tools as they best fit into your life.

 

I’m sure you’ll then find you continue to use the tools and to remind yourself to use them for life – since it’s likely there will always be more clearing you can do with every new challenge in life!

 

The first two tools – the Heart Breathing Tool and the Focus Questions Tool will help you to identify hidden blocks you might not even be aware of.

 

In addition you can use the following assessment questions to uncover other well-hidden blocks – so you can resolve all your relationship and sexual problems – and start to enjoy love, happiness and sexual ecstasy to the full.

 

 

You’ll probably find the assessment questions fun and therapeutic just in themselves – and – when you come to use the tools you’ll know where to start for best results!

 

When you answer the questions be as honest as possible – without judging or censoring yourself – so you get to what it is you really need to know to use the tools most effectively.

 

Identify Your Current Blocks To Love Happiness & Sexual Ecstasy

 

 

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7 basic steps

 

Step 3 – How To Take Control