Intimacy Questions – What Makes A Girl Climax
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Todays question is ‘what makes a girl climax’.
One of the biggest, most asked and most important intimacy questions I’ve heard.
Many people seem to think the answer is all in stimulation of the clitoris.
Some would argue that stimulation of the G-spot is more important.
Others insist you must focus and spend lots of time on all the other erogenous zones (arms, hands, legs, feet, head, neck, ears, lips, skin, hair, belly and so on) well before ever approaching even the breasts, the clitoris or the G-spot.
In fact all three groups are right to some extent – though the third group is probably nearer the truth about how a woman can have sexual satisfaction and what makes a girl climax in most cases.
In general the girl, or the woman, is turned on in a very different way from a man. Most of the turn on in women happens in the sexual organ most people don’t even consider – her brain.
To be turned on and enjoy sex a woman has to be relaxed and free from worries.
In most cases this means spending some time getting her relaxed – for some ideas on how to do this – read the article below about Tantric Massage.
On the other hand if there are relationship problems – the girl may never climax unless or until those problems are resolved. In this case CLICK HERE NOW for relationship problem advice that works.
In some cases – if the woman has never had an orgasm or has problems reaching orgasm however much time you spend – then she may have blocks to sexual pleasure that need some clearing.
The MakeLoveForLife.com membership program will teach you easy ways to get through all these blocks – meantime you could start with the Lovers Sensual Art techniques.
Once the woman is relaxed and ready to enjoy – then knowing where and how to stimulate the clitoris (and / or the G-spot) becomes more important – but though I can give you the answer to ‘where is the clitoris located’ – no-one can tell you exactly how to stimulate your own or your partners clitoris for most pleasure – other than the person whose clitoris it is – since everyone is different and reacts in different ways. So explore and notice what works for you!
Intimate Massage Masterclass : How To Give A Woman Pleasure And Satisfaction With Just Your Fingertips
We live in a stressful world and it seems to be only getting more and more stressful. As a result, we are all looking for ways to help calm things down and make ourselves feel better as a result.
There are many ways to do this, from simply relaxing on the couch or spending time with someone we love. However, there is a new way that is coming along in the West that is changing how women relax and it comes in the form of an erotic massage.
This female genital intimate massage is helping more and more women discover the art of sensual massage and learn to relax in their lives.
Tantra massage is something that more and more women are disovering as a way to not only relax, but to find the joys and highs of being intimate with someone they love and trust through an erotic massage. In the Tantric Texts, it is specified that sex has three distinct and separate purposes; procreation, pleasure and liberation. It says that those who want to seek liberation must forget the orgasm for a higher form of ecstasy. Throughout the texts, many sexual rituals are recommended and they involve elaborate and meticulous preparations. This is because the act of Tantra involves balancing energies within the pranic ida and pingala channels of the body. During the act of tantra, the sushumna nadi is awakened and the kundalini rises within it. When this happens, everything culminates in Samadhi where the individuals are completely dissolved in the unity of cosmic consciousness.
Now what does this have to do with female genital intimate massage?
Well, to understand what this massage is, you need to understand what Tantra massage is. In Tantra, a women’s genital area is called ‘Yoni’, which means ‘sacred place.’ Throughout Tantra massages, it is important to stress the need to relax, slow down and admire every inch of the body. The masseuse performing the female genital intimate massage must go over ever part of the body, not just the genitals in the massage, respecting and loving all of it, not to mention the part between the legs. This is the best way to perform the massage and show the love and relaxation that comes with it.
The massage should start with the masseuse sitting or standing between the woman’s legs, while the masseuse gently draws their fingertips up along the thighs and vaginal lips. Through the wide range of strokes and gentles movements of the hand during the course of the tantra massages, the woman will begin to feel more and more pleasure as the masseuse begins to explore and discover every single inch of her.
Through all of this, the woman and her partner will discover new ways to feel love for each other as they explore the intimacy of their relationship through female genital intimate massage.
It is important to understand that this massage is not only for pleasure, but it has several health benefits for the woman, including stress-reduction. When the woman has suffered through a long day of work and needs a way to unwind, there is no better way than this. Through the erotic massage, stress can decrease greatly and feelings of well-being and pleasure will overwhelm the body. As many doctors will tell you, this is a great way to help heal the body as the human body heals much better when it is happy, rather than depressed, stressed or sad.
If you love your partner and want to show her why you care so much for her, then give her a night she will never forget with a female genital intimate massage.
By: Maya Silverman
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Greatest Lovemaking Positions
Who decides what are the greatest lovemaking positions?
And who are they to tell you?
And more important still – great lovemaking is not all about positions and technique – there’s a lot more to discovering how to have better sex and truly wonderful relationships than just knowing about some apparently great lovemaking positions. If you want to discover how to have really great sex and how to enjoy love for life – CLICK HERE NOW.
Whatever anyone tells you about making love and the best positions – they can only tell you what they have experienced as the greatest lovemaking positions – or what someone else says they’ve experienced – or what they are theorising should be best for some reason.
But we’re all different – our bodies are different – our needs are different – our moods are different – our imaginations are different.
The only way to know which are the best positions for you is to find out for yourself.
In fact – what’s most comfortable or most exciting for one person or one couple may do nothing for you or for your partner.
And of course the lovemaking positions you and your partner enjoy most one day may be very different from the ones you enjoy another day. So make up your own mind – listen to your own instincts – follow your heart and have fun exploring.
You can read any amount of books telling you about the greatest lovemaking positions of all times – and some of them may give you ideas you perhaps hadn’t thought of before – such as underwater lovemaking – but I think it’s unlikely you wouldn’t get to them all eventually if you let your imagination run wild – and who’s to tell you what’s best for you?
Of course if you listen to everything you’re told you might even miss out on the most pleasure you could be having – you may be so distracted trying to be and do ‘the best’ that you don’t pick up on the signs your partner is giving you about what he or she is really enjoying – or would enjoy – the most.
Experimentation is in any case so much more fun than trying to follow a guide book – and whatever you’ve heard – you don’t actually need one.
Did you need a guide book to learn to walk? No you experimented till you could do it the way that felt good to you.
The guide books will generally tell you that different positions have particular advantages over others.
For example since the woman’s G spot is on the front wall of the vagina and some women enjoy sex more when the G spot is stimulated, the manuals may tell you first where is the G spot and then the best sexual positions that might involve her lover stimulating this area. (Or if its a man’s G spot you’re going for you’ll need to know where that is too).
Of course you might think it could be useful to have instructions on the greatest lovemaking positions for one or other partner to be in control – or the best position to stimulate the clitoris for example – and if you still don’t know where the clitoris is located you can take a look at a clitoris diagram – but better still – explore yourself (if you’re a woman) or your partner to find out – get her to show you exactly where hers is and how she likes to be stimulated there.
And much better than concentrating on the different lovemaking positions that might or might not work for you – if you really want to discover how to have better sex – and a great relationship that lasts – start by finding out what’s really important – exactly how women can have sexual satisfaction – what makes a girl climax – all about the real lovers sensual art – CLICK HERE NOW.
Unconditional Love – GOOD or BAD?
You may have been wondering – is unconditional Love – GOOD or BAD?
If you’ve read or heard what many of the world’s spiritual leaders – both in the past and in the present – have said – you’ll know they teach that practising unconditional love for yourself and others is the only way to have true happiness and successful relationships.
Yet other very successful relationship therapists state that this concept is not only ridiculous and impossible, but is in fact a bad thing to strive for – and damages rather than helps relationships.
The truth is that though it seems these two groups are totally opposed in their views – they are actually in agreement. Let me explain.
Just for a moment think about what happens between most parents and children.
Though you would like your children to be perfect they do not always do things you like or approve of. But however much you disapprove of your children’s behaviour – as a parent – you continue to love them. You might feel sometimes that you don’t, because you’re angry or hurt or disappointed – but at some level deep inside you still love them and know they are really better than the behaviour they’ve shown – even if while you’re upset you don’t want them to know that!
This is unconditional love – it comes naturally – you don’t make yourself do it deliberately – you are disapproving of your child’s behaviour – but at the same time you are loving the real person you know is there deep inside beneath the behaviour. The point to remember is that all human beings do the best they can, with the knowledge and the resources they have at any time in any situation. This is not an excuse – simply an explanation. With better resources or knowledge or both each of us might choose to behave differently in certain circumstances.
The important thing to remember is that – as a good parent – you show your love not by standing by and allowing your child to behave in ways you believe are harmful to themselves or to others – but by pointing out how you feel about their behaviour – giving them the knowledge they might not have had previously and also the opportunity to find alternative resources – and so to make different decisions, find alternative responses and behaviours and so to grow.
If this isn’t yet making total sense to you – let me give you an example of how this applies in your adult world.
If you’ve being physically or mentally abused by your partner – putting up with that abuse is not showing love, respect or caring either to yourself or to your partner. While you don’t stop the abuse you are in fact abandoning both yourself and the person abusing you.
To show your love both for yourself and for the other person means establishing boundaries – refusing to accept abuse even if that means leaving the person or ending the relationship. You are actually showing more love by ending the relationship than by staying with the abuse.
Its even possible the other person may learn from your response that its OK to care about and to look after yourself and to say no to being hurt. Abusers usually hurt others because they have been hurt badly themselves and are afraid of getting hurt again. In fact – as with all our programmed behaviours – their abusive actions or words bring them the results they most fear – they unconsciously make sure their own fears and expectations are manifested in their lives.
Its important to remember when you leave someone – or ask them to leave – you can continue to love the person you’ve left, without loving the unaccepable behaviour you’ve left behind. And though they may not accept it at a conscious level – you’ve actually shown true caring – not only for yourself – but for them too by saying no.
Of course there may still be more you can do to understand and change the unconscious programming in your own mind that led you to attract that abuse – so that in future you make sure you attract only real caring and respect, but the fact that you’ve allowed yourself to say no now and acted out of caring and respect for yourself by leaving that abuse behind will already be having a huge impact on changing your previous programming.
So unconditional love is a GOOD thing – as long as you understand that the unconditional love is for the true inner person and not for their behaviour.
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Relationship Problem Advice
Do you have easily accessible, effective and affordable relationship problem advice available in your area? or is therapy and counseling very expensive, based on principles that don’t actually work, or just not available?
Perhaps you’ve begun to realize that relationships, intimacy and love are the most important elements of our lives – if you are in a happy loving relationship that supports you in living your life purpose – your energy is in such a good state that life becomes so much easier. Its easier to make money, to enjoy your work, to notice everything that’s good about life. Your health is better, its easier to deal with any problems that might arise and you can enjoy life to the full.
However – if you’re like most people you probably are not yet secure in that happy loving supportive relationship – because you’ve never learned how to either attract or to keep someone special in your life.
Maybe you’re still wondering if or how you can find your true soul mate, how you can resolve apparently insurmountable issues with your current partner – how you can leave and start again – or how you can get over a broken heart or other past traumas and finally be happy.
I have worked successfully as a sexual and relationship therapist for many years with both individuals and couples and now I want to show you just how you can resolve all the problems you’ve had till now and finally attract and keep your true soul mate for life.
Like you I’ve had times in my life when I was desperate to find the key to that magical state. I began my quest as a child when my parents were so unhappy I wanted to make things better for them and for me. Later I became even more focused on finding the answers when faced with an unhappy marriage and divorce myself. But – despite a long hard search I was disappointed for years that I could find no really effective help.
Though I studied and worked in conventional psychotherapy for some years and some of my clients achieved great results – I became more and more frustrated and disappointed in most of the results I witnessed. Some individuals and couples made the changes they needed to achieve real closeness, but most continued to struggle – including me!
I became more and more determined to find the solution – to discover how it is that a few people enjoy really wonderful, deep, caring, passionate and long lasting relationships – so I could develop a simple method anyone can follow to do the same.
I came to realize that happy relationships don’t happen just by luck or by accident. There are specific reasons they work or they don’t.
You’ll probably be as amazed – as I was and as most people are – to learn that the main reason things go wrong for you is that you have been unconsciously programmed to avoid or reject the very thing you believe you are doing your best to find.
Did you know, for example, that you have a deep, hidden, possibly even long forgotten, fear of rejection, loss and hurt?
As a result of that fear – without even realizing it – you’ve been programmed to avoid the closeness, caring and intimacy really desire. And so – even though consciously you believe you are doing your best to find and keep happiness – unconsciously you – like most other people around you – you are making sure you only allow yourself to live a lonely, unhappy or dissatisfied life!
So now you will be starting to understand that the way to achieve your dream of a truly happy long lasting partnership is to start by recognising and changing your unconscious programming – the programming that has been a hidden obstacle in your path at every step until now.
Great relationship problem advice must then include instructions on how to become aware of your unconscious patterns and then show you a way to change those patterns to achieve the results you desire! Step by step you now have the opportunity to learn exactly how you can do this.
So start clicking on the links to find the answers you need now.
