Relationship Problem Solved – Technique 1

Your Relationship Problem Solved – Technique 1 – Ask The Right Questions

 

Using this technique you are going to start to take control of your mind and your life by taking control of the questions you ask yourself.

Soon you will understand why this step is so important and so powerful – in every aspect of your life – to learn to love yourself completely – and to have your relationship problems solved.

This technique is one of the simplest, yet one of the most effective I’ve found to help you make profound changes in yourself and in every aspect of your life.

As soon as you start practicing this technique you’ll find your whole focus changed. And as a result your mood, your energy and your outcomes will also automatically improve.

So now – its time to get started.

You may or may not have noticed that all the time you’re asking yourself questions – about yourself – your relationships – and about almost anything and everything in your life.

For every question you ask, your unconscious mind is programmed to find an answer to match.

The answer may not come immediately.

In fact it’s more likely to come later when you’re doing or thinking about something else – then your mind is free of the question and so has space and time to find the answer.

And the answers you get are not necessarily the truth – they are simply answers your mind found to match the question – by going through all your stored information – all your past experiences, beliefs, expectations and so on.

So imagine what sort of answers you’d get if you asked yourself negative questions in an unsupportive tone – such as:

 

• Why does this always happen to me? Or

• Why doesn’t he ever listen to me? Or

• Why doesn’t she want to make love with me? Or

• How is it that other people seem to have more luck in love than me?

If you ask unsupportive questions – your unconscious mind will find unsupportive answers that fit the question – because that’s what it’s programmed to do.

It will search through all your memories and beliefs, past experiences and expectations and come up with an answer that seems to fit.  

So you might get answers such as:

 

• Because you’re ugly (or stupid or useless).

• Or – because you did something wrong.

• Or – because you’re not good enough.

Any of which will of course make you feel even worse – and the downward spiral into feeling bad and continues.  And of course the worse you feel about yourself – the less you can attract and keep love from someone else – remember you need to love yourself completely to enjoy a truly loving relationship and to enjoy success in every other aspect of your life.

The questions you ask yourself have a huge influence on how you feel, what you notice, what you do, how you experience life – and what and who you attract into your life – so it’s crucial you learn to be in control of these questions now!

Make sure you give yourself the greatest advantage possible by only asking yourself questions that can give you supportive answers.

For example:

 

• I wonder how I can really enjoy every moment of the day today? 

• I wonder how I can notice all the really great things about my partner? 

• I wonder how I can find it really easy to get on with my colleagues? 

• I wonder how I can find it really easy to ask myself only positive supportive questions from now on?

• I wonder how I can notice all the good things coming out of this situation now?

• I wonder how this will turn out to be the best possible thing that could have happened?  (However bad the situation might seem).

• I wonder how I can start feeling better about myself / happy/ content / excited / secure/ successful today and every day?

• I wonder how I can find it easy to love and enjoy my own body now?

• I wonder how I can come out of this meeting feeling really great – having achieved the best possible outcomes?

• I wonder how I can find it really easy to let go of anger, blame, jealousy and fear from now on?

• I wonder how I can find it easy to love myself more and more every day from now on? 

• I wonder how I can notice laughing at least three times today?

• I wonder how I can enjoy every moment of my day today whatever I do?

• I wonder how I can notice feeling totally physically comfortable this morning?

• I wonder how I can find myself living with my true soul mate by the end of February next year?

• I wonder how and when I am going to feel excited today?

• I wonder how I am going to notice three good things about myself / everyone I meet today?

• I wonder how I can notice giving myself praise and encouragement today and feeling even better about myself as a result?

• I wonder how I can enjoy contributing to other people’s lives today or how

• I can help someone else to feel really special?

• I wonder how and when I can notice experiencing loving feelings at least three times today?

• I wonder how I can find I am totally clear about what would make me happiest in my life by the time I wake up tomorrow?

• I wonder what I can feel really passionate about today?

• I wonder just how many things I am going to notice being really grateful for by the end of today?

Make a list of supportive questions you can read through any time you need inspiration – or when you’re feeling less positive – at first it’s not always easy to come up with supportive questions when you really need them.

Notice anything that stops you from feeling completely wonderfully happy and ask a question that will allow you to enjoy good feelings instead. 

For example if you felt frustrated that you couldn’t find the solution to a particular problem – you might ask yourself:

 

• I wonder how can easily and effortlessly come up with the best possible solution to this problem in the next hour?

You’ll find you will be getting plenty of opportunity to add to your list of questions as you go through this course.   Asking supportive questions will make every other part of the course even easier, more fun and more effective. 

To help make your questions as effective as possible follow these steps:

 

• Decide on the results you’re aiming for – how you would like to be feeling or what you would like to be doing – and by when.

 

• Start the question with “I wonder” – or something similarly undemanding and open.

 

• Include “how can I notice?” – to make sure you get the full benefit of the great experience you are about to have as a result of the questions you’re now asking.

 

• Remember to give a reasonable time limit, such as during this meeting, by the end of today?, in the next hour, now and from this moment on – if you don’t your unconscious mind may give you the answer you want – but in 20 years time.

 

• Also remember to keep in mind or to add at the end of your questions – this result or something even better – then you will get what you are asking for or something even better.  Otherwise – if you are only noticing the very specific answer you might not notice you got something even better instead!

NOW:

Think about what happens when you see someone you know and you can’t remember their name – of course the harder you try to remember the name – the more difficult you find it to remember.

But when you stop trying and do something different, your mind is free to find the answer to your question and suddenly you remember.

So do the same with your questions – ask them or read them to yourself – then forget them by doing something else - so your unconscious mind is free to find the answers for you!

Keep your list of questions by you at all times, so you can:

Always take control of your thoughts.

Ask yourself at least 5 supportive questions each morning when you wake up – to set you up for the best possible day – and to get into practice for taking control of your questions during the day.

Add new supportive questions to the list whenever you think of them.

Keep a note of your results – the more you take note of you positive results – the more positive results you will get!

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Your Relationship Problems Solved – Part 1

Your Relationship Problems Solved – Part 1

If you are like most people – you probably haven’t enjoyed the true happiness you’d really like to enjoy in a true loving relationship

• Maybe you’ve never had a close relationship, though you’ve always longed to be with someone you could love and who would love you in return?

• Perhaps you’ve had several or maybe many relationships, but even if some of them were very intense or seemed like the real thing for a while – they didn’t last?

• Maybe you fell in love just the once and believed you’d found your soul mate – perhaps you were happy for many years and thought you had the perfect relationship – but then something happened and your relationship and your life seemed to fall apart?

• Or perhaps you’re in a relationship that isn’t the way you’d like it to be – you argue or you just don’t communicate the way you’d like to – there are things about your partner you don’t like or don’t approve of and would like to change?

Whatever the problems you’re having with your relationships – I’m sure you’ll be surprised to discover – the cause is always the same – and it’s not your ‘fault’ – or your partner’s ‘fault’ either.  

So – just in case you were yourself or someone else – you can stop blaming your partner and stop giving yourself a hard time too!!!

You’re about to discover just what the cause of all your problems is and how you can solve any and all your relationship problems if you choose to, by using some very simple techniques that can quickly transform your life! 

As you might expect – the problem in relationships that go wrong (and as you’ve probably noticed – most do) is a lack of love – not a lack of love from someone else – as you were probably thinking – rather a lack of loving yourself!

So it’s easy – to solve all your relationship problems – and all your other life problems for that matter – all you have to do is to love yourself completely!

OK so maybe it’s not so easy – at least not until you know how – which is what this course is all about.

First I expect you don’t understand and maybe don’t even believe what I’m saying at this point – and that’s good.

Soon you will understand completely and it will all make sense. 

Meantime, however, as I always say – its better if you don’t believe a word I say! 

Rather than just believing it’s important you use the techniques you are about to learn in this course and discover for yourself the amazing results you get just by making some very simple changes.   Of course if you didn’t bother to use the techniques – to do something different – however unlikely it might seem to you at first – you will never get the results you desire and you deserve so much.

You probably didn’t realize before that most people don’t actually truly love themselves or respect themselves.  (You’ll soon understand why this is.)  And that’s why most people are not yet enjoying the happy loving relationships, health, wealth and success we are all meant to be enjoying right now.

Before I go further into why we grow up not truly loving ourselves I’ve found it’s helpful to get started – at this point – with a technique that can help you right away on your path to having your relationship problems solved completely.

If you’ve read any of my other books, taken any of my other courses, or been in individual therapy with me, then you’ll already have had some practice with this particular technique.  However, it’s just as important that you practice it again now in this new situation – to get the greatest benefit from this course.

So get started right away – CLICK HERE NOW

Unconditional Love – Good Or Bad?

 

Diagram For Male G Spot

I am often asked questions by both men and women such as ‘what is a G spot, how do I find it and what does it do?’

In this article we are looking at the G spot in men.    As you will see in the diagram for male G spot below the spot lies in an area inside the back passage on the front wall – over the prostate.   

Massaging this area is said to be good for prostatic health as well as producing extremely intense orgasms – said to be up to 4 times as strong as other orgasms and lasting much longer too.

The health benefits of prostatic massage have been promoted for hundreds of years in Eastern health practice.   For greatest health benefits it is said this practice should be carried out daily to increase blood supply to the area, so oxygenating  the prostate and removing all toxins.

This procedure can be carried out in one of two ways – internally or externally. 

Internally a finger or a prostatic massager is inserted gently and slowly into the anus – either by the man himself or by his partner – using a disposable cover or glove and some form of lubrication.   The finger or massager is then directed towards the front wall of the rectum as shown in the diagram.  Here it is easy to feel the mound of the prostate, which is then gently massaged for approximately 20 minutes – or for as long as feels comfortable.   This leads to milking of fluids from the prostate and to profoundly exciting and long lasting orgasm for the man.

Less effective, but more acceptable to many men is the external approach. 

In this case and external massage device is often used along with pelvic movements to stimulate the g spot internally.  

It is now possible for a man to sit on a specifically designed cradle and to move in such a way to give himself the desired therapeutic results.

It is still recommended that for best results with the external device a man first experiences an internal prostatic massage at least once in order to recognize the feelings and sensations he is aiming for when he uses the external device.

Though – as you will realize when you study the diagram for male G spot – they are less effective than direct internal stimulation for producing immediate sexual pleasure, the external cradle devices do have the extra advantage of allowing the man to become more conscious of his pelvic floor muscles and thus to exercise, strengthen and control these muscles. 

This can in turn help greatly in developing control of ejaculation, thus overcoming the problems of premature ejaculation, allowing sexual intercourse to last longer and be more pleasurable and allowing both  the man and his partner to experience more prolonged build up of pleasure rather than a rapid build up and then loss of that wonderful sensation.

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