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THE ULTIMATE LOVE SECRET

 

The Power Clearing Tools

 

Tool 2 – Focus Questions

 

You already know now how important your thoughts are – that they are what cause you to feel good or to feel bad for example.

 

But we haven’t yet talked about how powerful your thoughts can be when you ask yourself questions in your mind.

 

 

If you’re like most people – you’re probably not aware of the truly massive impact that asking yourself simple questions can have on your life and on your relationship.

 

Every aspect of your life – including relationships and love – is affected by the questions you are already asking yourself in your head – mostly without even being aware you’re doing it.  And can be completely transformed by asking different questions.

 

You’ve probably noticed by now that – all the time you are talking in your head.   But you may not have noticed that you’re constantly asking yourself questions.

 

You’ll soon understand why its crucial you now start to notice and take control of the questions you ask yourself.  

 

Did you know for example that – for every question you ask – your unconscious mind has to find you an answer?  

 

It’s automatically programmed that way.

When you ask a question – your unconscious mind searches for an answer – going through all the ‘filing cabinets’ in your mind – through your past experiences, your beliefs, your expectations and so on – until it comes up with an answer that matches the question – which is very often not be the truth – but instead something you’ve convinced yourself is true.

 

So now imagine what sort of answers you’re likely to get if you ask yourself negative questions in a negatives tone. 

 

Such as:

 

• ‘Why does everything go wrong for me?’
• ‘Why doesn’t he / she love me?’
• ‘Why can’t I be happy?’
• ‘Why do I always lose out in love?’
• ‘Why am I so ugly?’
• ‘Why doesn’t he / she treat me better / listen to me / want to spend more time with me / stay faithful to me / respect me?’

 

If you ask negative questions like these, you’re automatically programming your unconscious mind to look for negative answers – so it will search through all your memories and beliefs, past experiences and expectations and come up with an answer that seems to fit – such as:

 

• ‘Because you’re a loser or you’re not intelligent enough.’

• ‘Because you’re not good looking enough or not good enough in bed.’

• ‘Because you don’t have enough money or the right contacts or the right background or the right genes.’
• ‘Because you don’t deserve to be loved.’

 

Any of which thoughts make you feel even worse – and the downward spiral to misery and loneliness accelerates.  

Not only do you feel worse and worse, but you attract more and more of what you don’t want – and so on.

 

So the questions you ask yourself have a huge influence on what you focus on – how you feel, what you notice, what you do, the sort of relationships you attract or don’t attract and how you experience them.

 

The great news is – you can now use this knowledge to change your questions, your relationships and your life – and start to enjoy love and happiness from now on!

 

You can now make sure you always ask yourself questions that can only give you supportive answers – thoughts that make sure you feel happy and enjoy love at all times.

 

The getting the best results from your questions is to remember your unconscious mind needs space to find the answer for you.

 

Remember what happens when you see someone you know but can’t remember his or her name.

 

The harder you try to remember – ‘What is this person’s name?’ – the more difficult it becomes to find the answer.

But if you stop trying and think about or do something different and the answer suddenly comes to you apparently ‘out of the blue’.

 

 

As soon as you’ve asked your focus question make sure to let go and get on with something else and free up your unconscious mind to find the answer.

 

START TO USE POSITIVE FOCUS QUESTIONS NOW

 

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